Think Good Thoughts…
Thursday, November 8th, 2007When we thought about opening All Sport Academy a couple of years ago (actually I’ve been thinking about it for about 10 years) the plan was to have a place where we could do great things for kids. We would offer lessons, clinics, camps and a place to just come to hang around with others interested in sports, any sports. What we didn’t anticipate was being a place were adults could find the same thing and more.
We have a new fight team here at ASA, the NJ Combat Club. Right now it’s a small group of guys that are training to compete in a variety of competitions, a few are doing Grappler’s Quest this weekend, then there’s a kick boxing tournament in December, then, well we don’t know what’s next, but ask me tomorrow and we’ll probably have 12 more things planned because that’s how Tony, the manager, operates. Anyway, these guys have been coming in now for about a month and are getting settled in their new digs, I’m getting comfortable with their schedule and there’s a lot of excitement around the fights and the Shawn Tompkins Seminar coming up on November 17th (yes, that was a blatant, non-relevant plug for our seminar…). Last week a new guy came to ASA to train with us that, at first glance, doesn’t look like he should be on the mat with the rest of our guys. In fact, the first time he was here I kept looking over my partition to make sure he was OK. Then I got to meet Barry and let’s just say, I’m not planning on getting on the mat with him any time soon…
First of all, understand that Barry’s in his mid-60s, which, that fact alone leads one to think he shouldn’t be back there rolling around with these 20-somethings. Not only is he older than the rest of them, he’s also been fighting tumors in his head for 20 years. For the better part of those 20 years Barry’s been told he had a certain amount of time to live, so I guess that means he’s living on borrowed time. The thing is he’s also a highly respected trainer and has been doing this stuff for many years. I went back to chat with the guys after a workout the other day and was talking with him about doing some seminars for us and he started demonstrating a few things that he would teach. He moves slowly and deliberately when he’s walking in and out of the gym, but when he starts showing you various ways that he could knock you on your backside, there’s no slow, but it’s definitely deliberate! Over the years Barry’s been an inspiration to many people that he’s been in contact with and for good reason, he’s not sitting around feeling sorry for himself, he’s a good guy and he’s still doing what he loves. I like the fact that he’s very appreciative to those that help him and he cherishes his friends. I’m also appreciative because you just can’t ever have enough good guys around you, he fits in well with the rest of the characters that spend time here…
Barry, Chris and Johnny are fighting in Grappler’s Quest this weekend. Chris and Johnny are young guys with hopefully many, many years of competing ahead of them. Barry’s not so young, but we also hope that he’s got many, many years of just being Barry ahead of him, whatever that means for him at the time. If I can ask a favor of anyone reading this, please think good thoughts and if you’re so inclined, say a few prayers for our new friend Barry. Not so much for success at the tournament(s) (although that would be nice too) because just being part of any tournament or workout and being on the mats is success enough, but because the more good thoughts he has the better…
Give ‘em heck guys and good luck!